This reverts commit 2fb5cc3ad09f6aaf82b5d1131ac5ed22ed848bd4.
Most of this change where wrong as they didn't affect the destruction
of the object. efl_add_ref allow for manual handling of the lifecycle
of the object and make sure it is still alive during destructor. efl_add
will not allow you to access an object after invalidate also efl.parent.get
will always return NULL once the object is invalidated.
Depends on D6061